Ethos, Identity, and Mushfaking
When learning something new I'm constantly pretty honest about how good I am. I don't try to fake it or make it seem like I'm better than I am. I stay pretty true to how skilled I think I am. I remember when I was trying to learn to do tricks on my skateboard. How to Ollie, manual, and do pop-shuvits. I really wasn't good at all, although my friends that didn't really skate, thought I was pretty good because I could Ollie. I knew I wasn't much though so I would just say thank you and tell them I'm not really that great at it. I think this approach has helped me to not get into situations where people would expect me to do something crazy I haven't done. Allowing me to slowly progress at my own pace and if I wanted to try something more challenging I could give it a shot and I wouldn't be expected to land it the first try. I feel like as individuals we need to stay honest to ourselves and the people around us. If we're not honest or ...